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Dumped & Divorced
Love is the greatest thing ever...until it isn't. When two sisters experienced relationship trauma through a broken engagement and a divorce after almost a decade of marriage, hosts Natalie and Maressa learned to lean into each other to make it through a life changing time. Dumped & Divorced is a space where they will talk about life after heartbreak and the redemption through it all. A space where you can come to hear stories about the hard stuff. In hopes that you feel less alone in any hardships you might be facing. Tune in weekly as we tackle topics of healing, rebuilding, self-love, and finding strength in the aftermath of life’s most difficult moments. Follow the show on Instagram @dumpedanddivorcedthepodcast
Dumped & Divorced
The Family That Heals Together: A Brother's Perspective on Divorce and Breakups
Heartbreak isn't just a solo journey—it ripples through families, changing dynamics and challenging bonds. When all three Lengway siblings found themselves single within the same year, what emerged wasn't just collective grief but an extraordinary opportunity for reconnection.
For our milestone 10th episode, we welcome our first-ever guest: our brother Chad. Positioned perfectly between us sisters in age, Chad offers the rare perspective of someone who witnessed both a sister's divorce and another's broken engagement from the sidelines. "It was lots of different emotions," he shares, describing the complex experience of losing not just in-laws but people he'd grown to consider brothers.
The conversation takes us through the painful realization that our father jokingly called out—"What's wrong with my kids?"—when all three of us were nursing broken hearts simultaneously in 2022. Chad opens up about his own relationship ending during this period, revealing how our shared heartbreak actually strengthened our sibling bond. Where we had once prioritized romantic relationships, we now found ourselves traveling together, rebuilding connections, and supporting each other's healing journeys.
We dive deep into toxic relationships, with Chad offering a powerful Finding Nemo metaphor about swimming in a dirty fishbowl where "no matter how many times you try to clean out the water, there is going to be a flake of toxicity that's going to end up continuing to grow." Each of us shares different healing strategies—from saunas to running to soccer with friends—highlighting that recovery looks different for everyone.
The episode culminates with reflections on our travels to Spain, representing how our renewed closeness blossomed after our breakups. As Chad notes, "The wound is where the light enters you," reminding us all that sometimes our deepest pain creates openings for extraordinary growth and connection.
Have a story about family support during heartbreak? Send us your experiences—we'd love to feature listener stories in future episodes!
Welcome back, guys. Hi, welcome back. Welcome to Dumped and Divorced, where we talk about life after heartbreak. We are two sisters. My name is.
Speaker 2:Natalie, my name is Marissa and this is our podcast.
Speaker 1:Hi. So this is a special episode for us because it is episode number 10, right, and you know I'm going to give us a pat on the back because we've gotten this far and a small little win. We mentioned that we wanted to do something fun for episode number 10, and that was going to be bring our first guest, Marissa, do you want to do the?
Speaker 2:introduction. Yeah Well, so, as you guys have known, we have a brother right smack in between us. His name is Chad and he is going to be our honorary guest, our first guest of the podcast. A supporter, a friend, a brother, all of the things right. And so we wanted to welcome our brother, chad, to the podcast.
Speaker 3:Hello, how's it going?
Speaker 1:Yay. Round of applause for Chad this is video. So we're all like here yes, we're just going to dive right into it. Chad, you know why don't we? We'll do a quick. Marissa did a wonderful job introducing you. You and I share 18 months difference, so we've always kind of grown up sharing friends, being friends, and then you and Marissa are four years apart, right yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we share a lot of like hobbies that we love together. Like him and I love to go to concerts, we share a lot of the same music we like going to soccer games. So him and I have always been close in that sense too. We're going to like love going to comedy shows together.
Speaker 1:So, we have a lot of commonalities as a brother and sister. Yes, it's great that it's on national sibling day. Oh, look at that, that wasn't even that was not planned.
Speaker 3:It was destined to be without us even well, cute, okay.
Speaker 1:So, chad, why don't you introduce yourself to our listeners? You know who you are. Obviously we've talked about our relationship, but you know who you are. Obviously we've talked about our relationship, but you know. Tell us a little bit about you.
Speaker 3:Well, let's start with a fan of the podcast, friends of you two and all your friends and a brother. Most and importantly and I am honored to be your first guest I'm really excited to be talking with you guys about some stuff, about being dumped and divorced and everything in between, so dive right in.
Speaker 1:Dive right in Life after heartbreak. It goes on. You've experienced a little bit of it in your lifetime so you kind of can understand some of what we talk about. So I'm just going to jump into the first question that we kind of had for you and this is more so about your perspective being that you've kind of witnessed and experienced firsthand the heartbreak of my divorce and even Marissa's broken engagement. What were some of your thoughts? Like I don't want to make this as a as a man kind of thought, but more so like as someone that has feelings, as someone that is connected to us. You know what were some of your. How did you process all of that?
Speaker 3:well, first, I don't think I did a good enough job introducing myself. I'm chadwick langway. I am the second of of third children, I'm a Leo, I am a athlete and someone is calling me. That's so funny. And let's see where was I going with this. Yeah, it's been very fun to watch your journey. I'll start off with a funny thing. Last night we were supposed to film this or record this, but I got stuck in a soccer game and then I got distracted by other things in life, such as life, and I want to give a quick shout out to my soccer team, turkey Mob. We're in first place, no big deal.
Speaker 1:Are they going to be tuning in?
Speaker 3:That's kind of you know what I do. As far as hobbies, I love soccer. I love, like Marissa said, we love going to shows together. Tomorrow, actually, marissa and I are going to a comedy show, phil Hanley.
Speaker 3:So it's going to be super fun and, yeah, we're really close. You know I love you both very much. I've watched your journey come through to fruition in what you guys are doing right now. It's great, you know, really exposing your truth and overcoming, you know, all adversity. So, um, as far as the gentlemen who are no longer in the picture, you know it was tough. I mean, I, I grew to love them, I respected our relationship and I, um, and you know it was, it was tough, it was, that's all I can say. It was lots of different emotions. Right, there was anger, there was, there was bitterness, there was sadness, there was resentment, there was um, you know, also, like a part of me, you know, kind of left, you know, especially my brother-in-law that was also a brother in many other aspects. So I think it's it's a matter of overcoming these adversities and speaking your truth, and you guys have done a great job doing so.
Speaker 1:Thanks, yeah, I mean, like Marissa, you can probably agree to this when you break up with someone or when you lose that relationship, you don't only lose them like your partner, you lose the family. You know the friends, and that was, you know, Chad. You kind of had to side with us and, um, obviously blood is thick and blood runs deep.
Speaker 2:So, you know, you also, in a sort, grieved the loss of both, both the people that we were with, Um he probably grieved yours more than mine because him and my Chad and mine had some differences, which we're not going to air that dirty laundry, but I felt like Chad was always trying to love on him and mine was just not really seeing eye to eye. So I feel like when you say grieving a relationship, I really think he grieved yours more than mine.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean, it's really kind of growing to love someone and, uh, I don't like to compare the two, uh, from each other. I think they're. They're both individually great, and especially in the beginning, when I got to know them and spend time with them individually and find out different qualities that we shared or different hobbies that we enjoyed. So, yeah, it's tough losing someone, but it's also a matter of what is important, and, in the end, family is always important. It's not like I'm going to choose their side. Even if they were right, I would still be like tell you, natalie or Marissa, you were wrong. If that were the case, or whatever it may be, I'm going to be pretty objective in my opinion, but I mean, it was just, you know, something that I had to overcome. One of them I knew for longer. So I would say, you know that one was a little bit more tough, but I still, you know, enjoyed getting to know them both during the 18 years combined that I got to know them, maybe even more, two decades.
Speaker 1:It was a part of our family. Why don't we pivot and talk a little bit about you, chad? So have you? Was there anything in your life that you overcame in your love journey that you can share as a male? You know some like hard times. I know the relationships. You've had some good ones, you've had some bad ones, you've had some toxic ones as well. So what are? You know it's for all these weeks we've kind of been sharing our opinion, so it'd be nice to kind of have a little bit of a perspective of a male dude.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I've been dumped and I've done the dumping, so there's both aspects to that. I think at the time when we were actually initially conceptualizing this podcast, you know I was going through a breakup. It was someone I met through a dating app and it was going great. It was one of those like feel good relationships that get really going quickly, so quickly that you know it progressed in a manner that you know we're meeting the, those feel-good relationships that get really going quickly, so quickly that it progressed in a manner that we're meeting the parents. And then, ultimately, within six months, everything was just shut down and for a lot of different reasons, which I won't get into, nothing extreme, but more so that it was like a certain, I guess, a timeline that this person put into whether or not we're going to be compatible and she just shut it down.
Speaker 3:And so I was going through the thick of it with Marissa and with you, nat, and you know we were talking about a lot together and, especially as we were going out, people would hear our stories, especially like the Uber drivers, drivers and they'd be like man, y'all are really entertaining. You guys should definitely do a podcast. So that's initially where it started. In fact it was going to be. Uh, it was going to be like the the lengway podcast or something like that, or it could be actually double dumped and divorced. Triple D I thought it could be called.
Speaker 2:Triple D.
Speaker 3:Watch out Guy Fieri.
Speaker 2:Diners driving.
Speaker 1:Oh man, that's a good show, you're right.
Speaker 2:We essentially all of us at one point we're going through it. 2022 was a tough year for all of us in a sense of the love department, and I think even dad one time made a joke and was like what the hell's wrong with my kids? What's going on? Like two got broken up with and one's divorced, like I mean he tried to make light of the situation because that's just who our dad was, but I mean it did ultimately suck that at one point all of us were going through some sort of heartbreak in our own ways and just still being there for each other and supporting each other and also like listening and helping each other kind of get get through those emotions yeah, because you know it's also I mean, it takes two to tango as as the going that mom always likes to say, or many people um, so it was, it was part our fault too.
Speaker 3:You know, we have to come to that realization that we did certain things in the relationship that we probably could have done better.
Speaker 3:Right, and I think that was the beauty of us being on that same position together is that we were able to kind of not only just vent and bounce ideas but also grow and learn and kind of have like this kind of self perception of and how to like realize what you did or what you did not do and ultimately, better, be better from it.
Speaker 3:And so, um, you know, at times there was, you know, a point in maressa's life where we felt like she was being distant or not spending as much time with us, and we knew it was because of certain you know expectations or responsibilities that she had, and so and we weren't afraid to call her out on that, you know, and by you know, throw it to Natalie there was times on her end where she was just putting up with a bunch of stuff that she didn't have to, just because of the sake of her children. And you know, we were also not scared to voice those opinions, and so I think it it's a matter of holding each other accountable. And, and you know, we were also not scared to voice those opinions, and so I think it it's a matter of holding each other accountable. And, uh, that's what makes this, this sibling relationship, so special oh, that's true.
Speaker 1:I mean, if you think about it like when I, when I went through my divorce, being emotional chad maybe um when I went through my divorce there being emotional, chad, maybe when I went through my divorce there wasn't like my I'm the only friend of mine that that went through a heartbreak. You know, not saying and you and Chad didn't you guys weren't married per se, but experiencing that hardship and that heartbreak with you guys definitely helped normalize all my feelings. Like it definitely sucked. We all were really sad and I'm not going to lie. You know what dad said. It struck us all Like what the fuck is wrong with us. You know, like, why are we failing in the love department? Yeah, but I think that a lot of it might stem deeper into that and I think that that's what we've been doing for the last three years is trying to heal our childhood trauma. Right, everyone's talking about childhood trauma and healing just any battles that we were facing personally and overcoming that.
Speaker 2:So yeah, that was.
Speaker 2:It was really beautiful because you were also taking um accountability and saying like again.
Speaker 2:Like I feel like the purpose of this podcast is not to like shade our exes and we've obviously already established that but taking accountability of like understanding that we're not perfect Everyone makes mistakes and also acknowledging like things that we've done in our previous relationships that we don't want to do in our next ones, or, you know, things that we're going to take in consideration and kind of do that inner work of saying, okay, this obviously was an issue or a reoccurring theme in my last relationship.
Speaker 2:It didn't work out. What can I do to be a better partner or make my relationship work? In the end, if I want to make it work because of all the um, the like mistakes, I'm willing to you know, correct, you know, for the better of me and a future relationship. So I think, even owning saying like we have fault, we aren't perfect, it wasn't. We weren't saying that we're the victims or that everything went wrong because of our exes. It's more of no, it's just that there was a point where we weren't healthy for each other and we all left, or we all, you know, are not in said those in in those relationships anymore. But there was obviously some work that we all had to do individually.
Speaker 3:So I think acknowledging that was really important and also like a really good point I even went back into it again, kind of similar to Marissa, where you know, thinking that these people have changed, but in reality they're just telling you they changed just for another shot, but they really didn't do anything, or not enough to make it, you know, good enough to stay. And so, you know, was that toxic, you know? And eliminating toxicity out of your life. And sometimes it takes a, you know, a harsh reality for you to to to like really understand that this is not going anywhere, no matter how much effort you put in or how how much you change as a person, or how much you know concessions you make or how many things that you do to just to make them happy. And if that's not enough, then you got to step out and just say listen, I'm out, I'm done, I'm no longer putting myself through this pain and suffering and I know that there's going to be brighter things down the road.
Speaker 1:And that's so true because once you're living in a toxic pool and I think I've mentioned this, but I know I say this all the time, like when I we talk about toxicity you know the fight, like finding Nemo living in that green fishbowl of algae. When Marlon tries to, you know crank it, you know stop the crank and then you're just swimming in that gross water. You can't, no matter how many? Times you what.
Speaker 2:Just keep swimming.
Speaker 1:Just keep swimming. But no matter how many times you try to clean out the water, there is going to be a flake of toxicity that's going to end up continuing to grow and that's the. It's absolutely terrible and I think that there I don't know. I mean, I know for us the only way that we were able to overcome it is by leaving the situation right or by staying, by not going back to the situation Right. But yeah, I mean, toxic relationships are, are so damaging, not only for your mental state but for your emotional state, I mean, and it ends up, ultimately, change can change you as an individual, like, because you feel like it's you and that you have to change to mold to them, to adapt to them.
Speaker 1:But really that's not. You don't need to do that. You need to stay true to yourself. And if it's true love and if it's you know, stay true to yourself. And if it's true love, and if it's, you know, if it's a, if it's a solid bond, a solid foundation, then you know you don't need to, you want to. You won't experience that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I want to quote our homie, mlk Jr.
Speaker 2:I thought your ex was going to do an actual homie. I was like who are we shouting out?
Speaker 3:Our homie for Atlanta, the doctor himself. He says darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that. I think that's pretty powerful.
Speaker 2:Chad is coming in with the intense quotes and the acknowledgements and taking ownership love to see you can take that in many ways right.
Speaker 3:You can say, like being mean to someone just because they're mean to you, like that's not going to solve anything yeah, darkness cannot drive out of darkness.
Speaker 1:Only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out of hate.
Speaker 3:Only love can do that and also kind of like the you know, just just knowing that you don't really know the good life until you've had what the bad. Or you know, don't know what is pure light unless you've been in some dark places.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so this that quote reminds me of this is quotes like these are transformational. Ok, right, so I love that quote. Thank you for sharing it. I think I'm gonna have to screenshot it and remember it forever, because when I think of quotes regarding lights and wounds and dark places, I think of one by Rumi I don't know who he is, I think he's like a Buddha person I need to dive into that a little bit more but it's a famous person and it's a well known quote and it says the wound is where the light enters you. So so you know, I actually found came across this quote right before, or actually right after, I decided to separate from my husband at the time, and it couldn't have rang truer to me.
Speaker 3:So yeah, let's do another quote, and this one you'll know because it's a beautiful quote. We don't really know who said it. There's varieties of like an old book book that someone said it, but it was a different version of this. But it is, variety is the spice of life, so stay well seasoned. In fact, I'm gonna, I almost want to get that tattooed, because it is something that means something special, like become this multi-faceted you person that lives life to the fullest with different, different characteristics or different type of people or sorts of people. And so who said that quote? I'm going to ask to both of you.
Speaker 2:Dad.
Speaker 3:I know that was an easy one. Maybe I'll give you a hard one next time.
Speaker 2:You're muted, marissa. I was muted because my dog was going crazy under. He was trying to find a tennis ball under the couch and was going ape, ape crazy.
Speaker 1:So I was like, let's just.
Speaker 2:I said ape crazy.
Speaker 3:I know you didn't curse. I didn't curse you girls have such a potty mouth on this podcast.
Speaker 2:I know we've had a. I've been. Yeah, chad doesn't like it when women curse, including his sisters.
Speaker 3:He gets very grossed out Not even women, just people in general in an angry manner.
Speaker 1:But we're not doing it angry. Ours is more expressive.
Speaker 3:Okay, so for women, just generally, I think it's unladylike, and for men I think it's whenever they're mad. I try to eliminate that entirely. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2:I shifted gears and I knew you probably wouldn't want me to say it, so I did that and I acknowledged that yes. Also, let's acknowledge Chad. You remember we talked about this. We're going to acknowledge that Natalie has been wrong multiple times on this podcast.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah, I'm one to call her out easily, because she calls me out every. I feel like every day. But so she said that you can't serve Last week. Yeah, last whatever episode, last season, did you say season? No, we have episodes she said well, I was about to, because I thought you said that. She said that you can't serve alcohol or like what. You weren't a server, you were just a host. You can serve when you're, I believe, 16, but definitely 18 and so 18 in georgia.
Speaker 1:I did fact check myself after and yes, yes, so that that's that I was wrong. You were wrong, sis, and then I was wrong about something else, the frenchie, it was the greece comment.
Speaker 2:You were like that grease.
Speaker 3:I knew that when I was listening to it live.
Speaker 2:You're like Marissa's right.
Speaker 3:It's the Frenchies I didn't have to look at it Men are fleas on rats.
Speaker 2:Even worse, they're anemones on fleas on rats.
Speaker 1:I was thinking about my best friend's wedding when Cameron Diaz was saying those like you're anemones on water.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, she does have a quote like that. It's similar.
Speaker 1:I was definitely talking about Frenchie. That is what I was thinking about, which made me confused.
Speaker 3:Well, sometimes you guys will say something and then you don't even know what you're saying. Marissa was talking about her wedding and how she had all these contracts and she binary and Natalie was trying to correct in her. I was like I think you mean binary. You said binary and she's like I think you mean, or you're like binary and I was like I think they mean binding. So I had to call you both out on that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, you know it's a humbling moment. There's times where I either don't know the words, I obviously don't know the difference between adjective and adverbs, or I just completely mispronounce things. But I blame the bilingual brain because I want to pronounce things in Spanish, sometimes in my head in English, and I think that's kind of where that might be a lame excuse, but that's where my head's at when it comes to that, oh, and we just got to roll with it, because we can only do so much editing.
Speaker 1:And you know we like it raw. Marissa likes to raw dog it.
Speaker 3:Please, no, please, stop. You take it to the next level every time, and it's always you, because we all know it's because you're under, I guess, under utilizing your body, and that's all you think about.
Speaker 2:Call out, call out.
Speaker 3:What I do enjoy, though, is whenever you guys do your little pookie jet thing Is his name Jet yeah, oh, yeah, yeah. Well, we haven't done that in a while. Fire pookie.
Speaker 2:Looking fire, fire, looking fire. Well, I do know we're probably wrapping up, but I wanted to because we're trying to condense and stick to the 30-minute window that we've mentioned. Chad, what was your favorite like, I guess, memory with me and Natalie, like when we were single? Because I feel like when we were in our relationships we didn't hang out a lot. We were always close and that's the thing. Our relationship has always been close. But when Natalie and I were in our relationships, we did distance ourselves from you, and it wasn't because we we want to do it, it was more of like we were, you know, more focused on our partners. But then when we got single, our hangouts tripled. It felt like we were always together, we were always seeing each other, we were doing things together, we were traveling. So what would be your favorite memory of us, together or separate, post breakups?
Speaker 3:I don't, I don't know really. I haven't really thought this out other than maybe Ibiza. I haven't really thought this out other than maybe Ibiza, because that was a lot of fun. Ibiza Were we in San Fermin three years ago. I know I didn't go the year that you guys went with the kiddos.
Speaker 1:No, you were not in San Fermin, you did not come to San Fermin.
Speaker 3:No, I'm saying three San Fermins before that.
Speaker 1:No, because I didn't go. It was me I didn't go.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was me, you and my ex. We went in 2018.
Speaker 3:Ah, you see me at quarter though. Okay, then I was just saying yeah, Barcelona, Go into Barcelona. Barcelona yeah yeah, ibiza was fun and it will always be the grand destination of all things EDM and house and just the fun in the sun, beachy kind of tropical vibes. Barcelona it checks off a lot of boxes that we all enjoy Food, the gothic kind of quarter, the architecture, gin and tonics.
Speaker 3:You know the social aspects of being outside in a big city that has a beach but also has mountains, but also has that you know concrete jungle vibe. So I really enjoyed that and being able to take y'all into the top you know bars of the world was really special.
Speaker 2:Three and top one.
Speaker 3:Yeah, number one and number three Shout out to Charlotte Butler for being so well connected and getting us in.
Speaker 1:What were those bars? Again, what's up, paradiso.
Speaker 3:Paradiso.
Speaker 2:Paradiso and Sips.
Speaker 3:Sips, sips was number one. Paradiso was number three. Sips, sips, sips was number one. Paradiso was number three. Sips just took over the reins of Paradiso, which was one the year before. Yeah, and that was a great experience.
Speaker 2:And Sips are, like, I think, still top 10, but they are, and that was in 2023. So they are no longer in the ranking, but it was still a really cool experience and vibe.
Speaker 3:I would say being in Spain just in general, like it's. It's always fun, you know, especially to especially connecting with the people that we used to go to, you know, grammar school with or elementary school and and just seeing them grow, and then with their siblings or their friends, and it's just fun reconnecting with all the people from Pamplona and Madrid and all over Spain, sevilla, barcelona.
Speaker 1:We appreciate you coming on today, chad. You gave us some good nuggets, some good hard truths, some words that you've kind of lived by and get you through hard times, and anything else that you might want to add before you sign off.
Speaker 3:Not really, I mean, I just know that this is going to continue to grow in a very beautiful and organic manner. I'm excited for your future guests and you know, if the fans want to hear more of my side, you know put it in the feedback in the comments section and maybe drop them a letter at dumped in divorce, you know, in the studio.
Speaker 2:Send us a text.
Speaker 3:Send them fan letters send more requests for different conversations. That'd be fun If your fans were to send you certain topics or subjects, or maybe even a personal story that they want to share, and ask for advice based on your or ours.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, we could start introducing that like ask for advice.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean we're no experts, but we've been through it. Yeah, at all and luckily we had each other.
Speaker 2:but you, you know, not all siblings can say that absolutely, and I think that's kind of like the importance of why we started this is because we wanted people to feel like they weren't alone and had some sort of relation to all of these conversations and topics, because we all either like, but between the three of us we obviously have had those heartbreaks and hardships. But we also have close friends that are going through breakups, divorces or not happy in their current relationship, and I feel like kind of having us as support is a beautiful thing. I don't know when people come up to me and they're like how did you overcome this? Or you seem like you're doing great, what are things that you would maybe share? And I'm like, absolutely Like, given my number, I'm happy to talk to them, tell them what I did, because we all had other ways of coping with our healing journey as well, which that could be another thing Chad, natalie and I talk about our healing right, like what do we do?
Speaker 2:Natalie Sauna's? I run, I've been reading, I've been doing things to keep my mind busy and trying to focus on other things.
Speaker 2:What are, what were things that you did when you went through your breakup? Breakups, if you want to say, exhibit A and exhibit B.
Speaker 3:We can go through the whole alphabet, but what's consistent is that I always had my soccer team or guys or group and it didn't matter if it was playing a game or pickup in Piedmont or different. You know areas around Atlanta or watching it at. You know brew house or like following our favorite teams, that communal, like space to where you can just vent and talk about everything or talk about nothing you know, and just having that level of connection with regards to football, just sharing that with you know just genuine, cool, down-earth guys so for you, your healing was soccer, therapy was soccer and people and like connections and that you know.
Speaker 3:That's what you want.
Speaker 1:Football is life and it's food, not soccer. But I'm guessing it's like a commentary commentator, huh is he a commentator, randy rojas?
Speaker 3:yeah, no, he was the striker that played on the, the tv show um ted lasso oh definitely not watch that. He was a commentator, okay, he was so quiet he wouldn't say anything, but football is life, and if anything negative happened, he would just like get sad and then he would just go play soccer and then he'd score a goal and he'd just be like football is life.
Speaker 1:So that was you. That's your life.
Speaker 3:That was my healing journey.
Speaker 1:That's why you love that show so much.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean it's a great show. It won a bunch of awards. I think everyone in America loves that show.
Speaker 1:Who watched?
Speaker 3:it of course.
Speaker 1:Well, I'm sure most of our listeners that have seen it will probably know exactly who he is, because I did not Shout out Danny Rojas and the entire crew at Ted Lasso. Well, we appreciate you joining in with us on National Sibling Day to share with our listeners and our people and our besties about just heartbreak and life after it and how we will all persevere and overcome what life throws our way.
Speaker 2:Thanks for joining Chad. We love you and we'll see you later. You and we'll see you later. You know we'll see you later.
Speaker 3:Love you too, adios.
Speaker 2:Bye. Thanks again for joining everyone. See you next week. Bye.
