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Dumped & Divorced
Love is the greatest thing ever...until it isn't. When two sisters experienced relationship trauma through a broken engagement and a divorce after almost a decade of marriage, hosts Natalie and Maressa learned to lean into each other to make it through a life changing time. Dumped & Divorced is a space where they will talk about life after heartbreak and the redemption through it all. A space where you can come to hear stories about the hard stuff. In hopes that you feel less alone in any hardships you might be facing. Tune in weekly as we tackle topics of healing, rebuilding, self-love, and finding strength in the aftermath of life’s most difficult moments. Follow the show on Instagram @dumpedanddivorcedthepodcast
Dumped & Divorced
When Your Match Turns Out to Be Someone Else's Husband
Have you ever matched with someone on a dating app only to discover they're hiding a major secret? In this candid episode, Natalie shares her shocking experience with a firefighter who tried to plan dates around his wife's work schedule while pretending to be a single dad. Through some impressive detective work from friends, the sisters uncovered his double life – that he was married with kids and had just returned from Disney World with his family!
The conversation dives deep into the darker side of dating apps, where catfishing, married men, and disappointment often lurk behind carefully crafted profiles. Yet despite these pitfalls, the sisters acknowledge the success stories too, including friends who found lasting love online. It's this tension between hope and caution that many singles navigate in the digital dating landscape.
Beyond dating disasters, Marissa opens up about returning to therapy, highlighting that mental health work isn't something you simply "graduate" from after a crisis. "For me, therapy is ongoing," she explains, normalizing the idea that continuous personal growth requires consistent effort and sometimes professional guidance.
The episode takes a poignant turn as the sisters discuss their upcoming trip to Spain, where they plan to hold a memorial service for their late father. This journey will blend celebration with mourning, allowing their Spanish friends who are "basically family" to properly say goodbye to a man who spent much of his life abroad.
Whether you're swiping through dating apps, working on your mental health, or processing grief, this episode reminds us that healing isn't linear and that sometimes the best medicine is sharing stories with someone who truly understands. Join us next week when we'll be reading our letters to ourselves – a vulnerable glimpse into our personal journeys of growth and self-discovery.
Hey everyone, welcome back, Happy Friday.
Speaker 2:Hi y'all, Welcome to Dumped and Divorced. We are two sisters who talk about life after heartbreak. My name is Natalie.
Speaker 1:And my name is Marissa, and this is our podcast.
Speaker 2:Yes, it is so. Welcome to all of our followers and listeners.
Speaker 1:Well, I shouldn't say I can't get over you saying y'all. I don't know if you said y'all this whole time and the. Southerner in you is really coming out today.
Speaker 2:The Georgia peach in me.
Speaker 1:The Georgia girl.
Speaker 2:I remember when we moved down from New Jersey like one of the first words I instantly picked up was y'all, because I just love that word so much.
Speaker 1:Love it. I mean it is fun. It's like a little like it definitely like, flows, like. Hey y'all, but we don't have that Southern twang Like hey y'all.
Speaker 2:I guess when you say like hey y'all, you sound kind of like Paula Dean. But if you, you know like I'll be telling stories like y'all do this. I'll say in conversation more than I'll say in greeting per se.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I thought it was so funny when our cousins like our last like family reunion, when we saw all of dad's like side of thes. So for sure, more than I've lived in Georgia, longer than I've lived in the United States, gosh in New Jersey trying to get out of the United States.
Speaker 2:Don't leave me. Well anyway, so welcome back. This is episode 12. Episode 12. Yep, yep, and we're about to hit our next milestone.
Speaker 1:Natalie mentioned last episode that we had over 2000 views not views, listens, downloads which is true. But our next like kind of big milestone is coming up, so we will make that announcement when we hit that number. So another really like good accomplishment, you accomplishment. We've been consistent weekly shows and we're here for the laughs and also the truths, so we're just going to keep on doing what we're doing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I got an email actually from somebody saying congratulations, you've already recorded more episodes than most podcasters that start.
Speaker 1:Wow, I don't know about this. That's pretty solid. I mean little shout out.
Speaker 2:When we started this we thought it would be. It's not hard to record, but it is hard to kind of sync up our schedules.
Speaker 1:Yes, yes.
Speaker 2:So, anyways, well, what do we have on deck for this week to talk about, sis?
Speaker 1:Well, there's been some funny stories brewing. I feel like there's been some date stories we should bring back just for comedic reliefs. I'm going to maybe you know throw you under the bus in the sense of you never told the audience about a firefighter.
Speaker 2:You're starting there already. We're not going to start on like, okay, so dating stories or how you're just like going in, I mean at first. Yeah, okay, so let's rewind.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:We're going to talk about just some dating app stories.
Speaker 1:thoughts of getting back on dating apps potentially yes, yes, natalie, you've had that conversation with me that you're interested in jumping back in there.
Speaker 2:We'll see, we'll see. It's like hot and cold because I love that, but it's terrible. They're just so terrible, however, okay, so that's kind of what we're talking about just fun or free stuff. You mentioned the firefighter, so I'm going to say this because it kind of leads up to why I'm thinking about just reactivating my profile, because when I get with my girlfriends, they have the best time going through the apps and just like For you, yeah, and it's kind of like a game, honestly. So this is exactly where this story's heading and where it came from. A couple of years ago, I was on a dating app and again, it was for shits and giggles. More so because, let's be real, the number of success stories is probably very few to the amount of people who've actually tried to get on there and find love regardless. So I have always kind of said my next, well, I'm not going to say that, but I knew where you were going with this.
Speaker 2:I totally knew where you were going. My next, well, I'm not going to say that, but I knew where you were going with this. I totally knew where you were going. Okay, so there was some firefighters. We were like, why don't we just like swipe on some firefighters? So we like kind of filtered through that profession and we found one in our local town. Well, in like the surrounding areas.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like a X amount of radius.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like the city of north of us, a city west and south, like just a couple of cities around us. So my girlfriend finds one and swipes on them and we match Okay. So she starts talking to him and then we leave, like we were at a cabin, we were on a girl's weekend, and then the conversation continued. Because I can hold a conversation pretty well, I've actually done it for you a couple of times yes, you have, yep. So anyways, he's in the town south of us and we were trying to figure. We were just like okay, where are you from, where do you live? What do you do you want to? You know, like the things like that, like the conversation was flowing. So we were like, okay, well, let's maybe get together.
Speaker 2:So he tells me that he can only get together between the hours of like nine and two, 30, which is because his kids are in school and he's a single dad. And I was like cool, I, I understand that, totally, I get it. Um. And then he was like on the weekends, you know, I have them. So I was like okay, I get it. So he was, he was pretty, I don't want to say aggressive, but he was very um, like let's do early mornings like basically brunch. We could do mimosas and coffees.
Speaker 1:No, I was going to say like I could appreciate. I will say like I could appreciate a guy attempting to do mornings, because there's like this negative energy or aura around, like guys only wanting to see you at night so that they just take you home and you know you guys have sex.
Speaker 1:So like I think guys approaching, saying like let me take you to coffee so that you get to know him, is a good way to like maybe feel that trust in a sense. So initially I would say like yeah, that's a very kind person to say hey, I'm not trying to just go out at night, I would like to see you or meet you during the day, where you could feel a little bit more comfortable and it not have that much pressure.
Speaker 2:So that's kind of why I was going to and that's where it was like cause, we were trying to figure it out and at the time I was like I was going to have my kids. It was whatever. Oh, I send, I update the girls and send him. I now have a picture of him and a selfie. And then my girlfriends are like GBI agents or FBI agents. And she is on it and she finds out his full name. I know his name right, like, let's just say it's Adam. She finds out his name is Adam and then she knows who Adam's last name is. She finds Adam on Facebook. She finds Adam on Instagram.
Speaker 1:And this isn't like your best friend who is a true True, freaking FBI agent Like I swear to her Not true but like she should honestly have a badge because of the stuff that she finds with the very little information that we have given her.
Speaker 2:So, anyways, my girlfriend finds all this stuff and we find out that one of our other girlfriends, right, is friends with, has a mutual friend of his and we like look it up, so one of, yeah, so one of our other girlfriends is friends with someone that he's friends with. So we're like starting to talk about it, like how do you know this person? Is he real? Because when you're on the dating apps, catfishing is a thing and you know. So the other friend was like oh my God, I work with her. Like how do you like where is this? Oh my gosh. And then we're putting two together and it felt she was like Natalie, that is his wife, okay. And she was like the wife is obsessed with her husband, like she bends over backwards for him. He can do no wrong, like this. Doesn't surprise me that he's on dating apps like chatting women up locally. Okay, I mean, we are like the next town over you know, and so I instantly get so disgusted.
Speaker 2:and at this, the same time, this guy is still texting me and we actually were trying to set a date a brunch date and he was like let me come over or you can come over to my house. It was actually getting a little weird, because it wasn't like, hey, let's go to Cracker Barrel or First Watch, it was like hey, come to my house or let me go to your house.
Speaker 1:That was the first restaurant you thought of is Crackle Barrel.
Speaker 2:I was thinking of like breakfast places.
Speaker 1:I wasn't going to say Waffle House, okay, I think Waffle House would be better than Crackle Barrel.
Speaker 2:I love Cracker Barrel, those apples. When was the last time you went to Crackle Barrel? Not too long ago, I mean, I would say in the last. Okay, so then yes 10 years.
Speaker 1:I've been a mom for 10 years Anyways.
Speaker 2:So we so he's married, he has a kid. He just went to Disney with his family, like over spring break, yeah. So my question is where the hell was the wife when?
Speaker 1:he's wanting to hang out with you At work. She was a nurse.
Speaker 2:He was a firefighter and she was a nurse Both public, like servant people. Public information Well, no, I mean no, like I call. I consider them like public servants, like they were working for the good of the people, right.
Speaker 1:Oh, oh, okay, Okay. Like police officers, nurses, firefighters, gotcha, wow, okay, cause.
Speaker 2:I was like where did the wife?
Speaker 1:where was the wife in all of this?
Speaker 2:Not with him and not with him, and at this point we exchanged. We exchanged phone numbers, yeah, so we were actually we moved to texting, cause this had been over a period of, I would say, like 10 days, a week and a half, almost two weeks, and then finally, like when we figured all this out, I called him out on his shit If you know me, and you really chop my ass, that's what I'm going to do. So he's like hey, natalie, you want to like? Let's, let's do this, have these days off, yada, yada, yada. And I was like you know what I appreciate? This was fun, this was fun, right, Like shooting the shit, connecting, talking to you.
Speaker 2:However, why don't you focus on your marriage and your wife XYZ instead of being on? I forget which app it was, let's just say it was Bumble On, bumble trying to is it called Coherse, anyways? So I said that to him and then I blocked him, and then I had a really hard time deciding if I needed to tell the wife or not, because I had hard proof of like. There wasn't anything like sexual or I didn't have any like dirty selfies. However, the texts were as raunchy as the man, because he was, you know. Anyways, I didn't do anything with that information because my friend who knew his wife was like, even if she knows she won't leave him. So after that happened though, like disgusted, and then that's kind of my last time on the dating apps because I was so grossed out about it.
Speaker 1:I feel like your, your firefighter situation is with my, like the guy I was with that was married. I think it's very similar in the sense of like we were so grossed out and that's the sad part is it's like woman to woman, like we're both girls, girls, like we will like rally behind somebody and like be their hype girl and also like yeah, and like we, you would have told that wife.
Speaker 1:But the thing is, is the fact that your friend said she's not going to leave him also just is so sad to me that women can't feel like they can leave situations that they like won't. It's like that mental block of like a woman can't leave a relationship because once she's married she has a kid, like it'll just be horrible. And I'm like break that fucking stigma. Why the hell can't she leave him? Why doesn't she want to leave him? Like he's a pig?
Speaker 1:Why are you allowing yourself to be with somebody who doesn't even value you? And that's kind of why I always go back to like self-worth, because when I'm starting to like get interested in people, like think of those things of like well, like what is my self-worth? Like I don't want to be another little Muppet for somebody, like I wasn't with my ex and I'm like fuck that Like you. Just your mentality shifts, I guess, once you're in a better place. And I feel very sorry for that woman because even if she did know, or she does know, she's not doing anything to get out of it.
Speaker 2:And here's the thing I think it was because, like her, there was some family, like I think the reason why she stayed with this firefighter is because she was comfortable. Obviously she was comfortable, she was her husband. But there was more to it, like the cycle didn't like the. It's a. It's a cycle Once you're in that, living in toxicity it's so hard to break the cycle, right? So, um, but again I it would, yeah, anyways. So, and it's just sad because, like, firefighters do have a stigma of being disgusting men.
Speaker 2:Um, not all of them but like so many, I mean I don't know. Are you still in that Facebook group? Are you dating my? Are we?
Speaker 1:dating the same person? Yes, I never was was in that group, but I've heard of it like I even have a girlfriend from a different state that she has a very, very like messed up story from a guy and like apparently he did the same thing to four different women in the same group. And I'm like my god. First of all, men are so dumb that they don't realize that us girls will get that information or find out through a Facebook group, like there's literal groups in every city of. Are we dating the same person? No, but I never was a part of the Atlanta one. However, I mean for shits and giggles. Maybe I would join just to see.
Speaker 2:I feel like I had a friend who was married and very happy in her marriage and she was in it because of the tea that was there.
Speaker 1:She wanted to like. She wanted to like just hear the tea, see the tea. I mean there's some good like there's like sometimes you are in a situation and you're like God, that really fricking sucked, like I hated that. But then you like hear other stuff and other scenarios that girls go through and you're like nevermind, mine was a walk in the park.
Speaker 1:Imagine, yeah, imagine if we had met, imagine if we did actually exchange numbers or no, not, you're going there no no, no, what I thought like you guys like met up and hooked up is where I was going.
Speaker 2:Well, yeah, I mean, what happens if it would have gone further than just the text and the? We actually talked on the phone a couple of times too, I think.
Speaker 1:Ooh, okay, well, so you like heard his voice, you knew what he like I mean but I will say he again he was doing all the right things of like offering to go for breakfast. Let's do a FaceTime to call, let's have a phone conversation, because catfishing again, like you said, is a real thing, like I always. It's kind of like how like like I had a girlfriend that she was interviewing and she looked up her boss's LinkedIn photo and she was like, yeah, like I just envisioned a different person than when I spoke with that person because their LinkedIn photo was out of date and I was like it's like, I kind of feel like I got catfished and I was like, well, it's still the same person.
Speaker 1:But I mean, if you post a photo from 10 years ago where you think you look hot as hell, like who's to say that that's that same person and you're going to get recognized. So I mean there's some pretty intense catfishing stories or people pretending to be somebody else on the apps too. I feel like I've heard a story like that. So like him, like saying like let's talk on the phone, let's FaceTime, like he's trying to prove that he's like a real, like a decent guy real, like a decent guy.
Speaker 2:He's not a bot, right. I mean remember there was like that guy from Germany or wherever and he was like a jewel, Remember him and he was so, he was so hot.
Speaker 1:So hot. I was like damn sis, he is a hottie mc hot, hot.
Speaker 2:But anyways, I mean that's going to happen, that's you're going to get catfished, you're going to get fine scums and, like I don't want to say, it traumatized me.
Speaker 1:But it just makes you like question a lot of things, yeah, like again you always want to see the best in somebody, or like think that no one would actually be that shitty of a person. I just feel like the faith in humanity for me is just so low, in a sense, where men are pigs and they will always be pigs. In my opinion, the guys that are great are great. You know, there's some really good guys out there, like I have my friends. Husbands are amazing people.
Speaker 2:Oh, the wedding you're going to this weekend. Is she met on?
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Nicole met her future husband on a dating app Like again I have a. I have a lot of. There's a lot of success in dating apps. Like we're not raining on the fact that they suck, because some do have success, but we're just shedding light on the situation of people who are really shitty on them, because there is those scenarios and it's more content for you guys as listeners to hear and kind of laugh at our stuff.
Speaker 2:Yeah Well, all that to say, I'm getting together with my girlfriends same group of girls in a couple of weekends.
Speaker 1:Love this for you.
Speaker 2:So when that happens, I'm always like, okay, should we read all of the apps.
Speaker 1:I love a confident Natalie.
Speaker 2:Well, it really is like so fun to kind of just when you're. That's what I mean. I'll be honest, that's what women do. We get together Even me and you did that.
Speaker 1:Like when you were on them and I was on them, we would you know you would. You would have like, yeah, you would have a fun time like swiping or just seeing what was out there. And let me tell you, I wish you were with me in Spain, like, cause when we were in Spain that summer I think you hadn't gotten to Spain yet, but I had a ball swiping on these men in Spain. I mean literally such hotties, and I feel like there's multiple Instagrams and TikToks of men in like different countries.
Speaker 2:And it's just so funny. So much better yeah.
Speaker 1:You're like where do these men come from? Like why don't we have these?
Speaker 2:men.
Speaker 1:My God, they're so hot Like I had a freaking ball and you were very worried of me meeting up with them because I was very much so by myself in Madrid. But a time was had.
Speaker 2:You matched in Madrid when you were by yourself. I hadn't gotten there yet. Yes, you were waiting. You had planned a trip, and then it had to kind of be rescheduled.
Speaker 1:So, yes, no, well, I was, I was waiting for a friend.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I was waiting.
Speaker 2:I was waiting for my friend Nicole to come with me to Madrid, and then she had a passport situation happen. Yeah Well, even though your passport expires on a date, you have to. I think it's like 60 days prior to the expiration date.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like with Europe, if your passport expires upon entry to United States, like you could like get denied to enter. So hers was not expired, it was just within that six months range.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's what it is Six months.
Speaker 1:And so she was literally at the airport, Like so we were, we were going to meet in Madrid, and then we were going to I was going to sightsee Madrid with her, and then we were going to go see Clara in Coruña, and then she was going to go back to United States and then I was going to go to Pamplona. But when she got to the airport they were like ma'am, your passport expires in six months. By the time you get back, you will not be able. And so she's frantic, she's like, oh my God, what do I do? And at this rate, we already like missed a day, right? So like it would have just. And then I think that Monday was a holiday.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was a holiday.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it was either Memorial Day or June, juneteenth, one of like the holidays in those months, can't remember and the office was going to be closed and at that rate she was like it's not going to be worth it for me to expedite it. So you know, yada, yada. So she ended up not coming. So I still keep planning on being in Madrid those three, four days, and so I was like well I'm gonna make this an interesting one.
Speaker 1:And I was swiping, I think maybe I was able to go to see. Glad I might have been able to move my train the day before, but I played around for a bit.
Speaker 2:So you matched him in Madrid, but he lived in South Spain.
Speaker 1:Yes, and I was going to South Spain later that month for a wedding. So then, while we were texting. I'm like the stars are aligning. I'm going to meet. I'm going to be in literally the city right next to you, but the train I was taking into was in his city.
Speaker 2:I was petrified. I was so scared of you.
Speaker 1:Yes, but I also met a guy in Madrid too that night I don't know if I told you that and I spoke with another guy. So I, there was two little rendezvous of men in a sponge and you were like what's happening me? You were just like literally like are you alive and sure? I mean, you do hear horror stories, right, like actually, the other day I just saw like a snippet of taken. I was hanging out with somebody and I, we and I was like was I literally had like a thought of, oh my gosh, like this shit happens too, right, like, even though taken was technically like what, like 10, 10, 15 years ago.
Speaker 2:Well, it's a movie, it's not like a real life story.
Speaker 1:No, I know it's but but it's like that stuff can also happen. So then you get in your head and you're like holy shit, like maybe I should, but I'm always very cautious, like I'm not that careless in a different country.
Speaker 2:Well, we're also fluent in Spanish and we are pretty comfortable in Madrid and in a lot of cities, so it's not like we are in Germany or something I don't know.
Speaker 1:You know Paris or we know nothing. Yeah, no, true, yeah, but well anyways.
Speaker 2:So stay tuned for that.
Speaker 1:We'll see'll see if I'm excited for you to possibly get back in the apps and, you know, have a little fun with your girlfriend it'll just be for the weekend, because more so entertainment for them, you know yeah, I love it and entertainment for the listeners, because we all love solid, fun, juicy stories but so well, what else?
Speaker 1:do, I know. I mean, we could talk about like what we're doing. I know we we are trying to be consistent on like mental health and stuff. I know you've been sauna-ing a lot and keeping up with sessions. I actually am going to pick back up on sessions in a sense oh, with your therapist yeah, I just want to talk with some things. And also, too, like I want to be open in a sense. Oh, with your therapist, yeah, I just want to talk with some things. And also, too, like I want to be open in a sense of like therapy isn't bad Not that people think it's bad, but I think people think that once you go through something, you do therapy and that's it.
Speaker 1:Like for me, therapy is ongoing. Like I have my own personal shit I'm trying to deal with on a day-to-day basis and I just want to be in alignment. Like I've been working so hard on bettering myself that sometimes I get in my head with things or like I start to question things, and so I am going to pick back up with a more consistent schedule, in a sense, and just work on some inner work, because I think it's always great to have an outside point of view of some things you were working on.
Speaker 2:Yeah, are you going to use the same one that you used previously? Are you going to?
Speaker 1:Yes and no. So yes, and then my, my company has this new program and I'm thinking about exploring another option, more on like grief, more on like a grief focus, so I can work through that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so you're going to start. You're going to start doing that. Well, that's good for you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, there's nothing wrong in that, in a sense, where you're just still continuing on improving yourself, and I support all of that. Like again, consistent therapy is good. There's no timeline to stopping said therapy or you can take a break from it and then come back, you know.
Speaker 2:I think, using somebody that you like. For me it's nice. I've had my therapist for three years almost three years now and I used to see her twice a week and then we did maybe it was.
Speaker 2:It was at least once a week, Right, and then after maybe six months we adjusted to once a month or every other week and now it's maybe every six weeks. So Tori has been in my life for many, many years and at one point I did ask her, like will I graduate? Are you going to like how does that transition out go? Yeah, and I don't really think that I'll. Maybe I'll just like scale back my sessions, you know, to quarterly if needed. But I like that. It's kind of like story time right, when I'm able to explain current stuff and she knows exactly who I'm talking about. She knows exactly my history and what we've already worked through. So it's nice when you have that established relationship. And it doesn't always happen when you first meet a therapist. Sometimes I've heard lots of people that have had to kind of, you know, go through a few therapists to kind of meet that match. So I'm very blessed and thankful that me and Tori connected and matched and all the things to make it comfortable.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So I think having a good therapist is also really important, but also it's not. It's not like you can explore other options, Like I have a girlfriend that explored multiple therapists before. She felt like she was happy and content with the work that they were doing. You know, if you feel like you're not getting out what you're wanting, there's no harm in exploring another option for you to better yourself.
Speaker 2:Yeah, just advocate for yourself, and that's you know, what I think you and I have kind of learned through our life, now after our heartbreaks and our struggles, is staying quiet does nothing, staying complacent does nothing, and yeah, anyways. Well, I've been doing a lot of journaling this week and I've been listening to a lot of Forrest Frank, so some worship and I'm going to tell you the kids love it Like cause. It's kind of like I don't want to say rap, but it's kind of like that.
Speaker 1:He's like a trendy, he's a pretty like a trendier Christian singer.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's not like Christian. Yeah. Yeah, it's very. It's like worship music, but it's like there's a song with Thomas Rhett. I mean it's good stuff. So we've been lost in some forest rank and anyways, that's really all we got this week.
Speaker 1:Anything Focusing on ourselves. Still, I'm really excited for you to have some fun with your girl. I have my best friend's wedding coming up, which is going to be a very exciting time, and then we also have some trips coming up, sis, that we could start dabbling into some funness, you know. Go back to España.
Speaker 2:That meme that I sent you, or that Instagram that I sent you of the like single mom on the skateboard with her suitcase Like oh my God, it was you.
Speaker 1:It was you. I was like hell, yeah, hell yeah, I can't wait for this Natalie to come Also, like did you, did you see that meme of a girl praying? And she was like Spanish boyfriend, spanish apartment, spanish tapas, spanish drinks, spanish wine. And I was like it me, it me. I sent it to Clara and she was dying laughing. So we're manifesting that I'm saying I mean, people who know me know that I, like Spain is my second home, I love Spain, I go there, I try to go there every year and I'm just also trying to move there. So maybe we're going to put some oceans in the ocean. Is that a phrase?
Speaker 2:I don't think that it's a phrase that you would use in this context.
Speaker 1:Motion in the ocean. We're putting some moves to that. Not motion in the ocean, I mean mean maybe in the future, but um, we're putting some moves in that well, yeah, summer's a summer's a fun time, and that's kind of like when we we like come out of the woodworks or you come out of the woodworks yeah, it's like okay, pause for real life.
Speaker 1:Here's summer natalie, summer natalie well, and maybe, maybe, like when we could also like um, let the audience know, like when we are traveling and doing that we might just do space some more um episodes out, so that way, like we can enjoy ourselves you know, maybe, yeah, maybe we can take a break for summer.
Speaker 2:I feel like people have done that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like we could say, hey guys, like we're going to Spain and where we will come back refreshed and with hella stories.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Well, if our trip works out, it's to do a memorial for our dad as well.
Speaker 1:Yes, we are going to do a memorial for dad in Spain.
Speaker 2:Because a lot of his life was in Spain as well, and we have friends who basically are family and yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:We'll do a little celebration of life for dad and, you know, let the people who loved him also mourn him, because you know that's unfortunate when it does have like a person who passes in a different country, some people don't have the opportunity to give their condolences, so we're gonna aim to do that too so it'll be a meaningful trip. It'll it'll be a fun trip, but It'll it'll be a fun trip, but also meaningful for the family.
Speaker 1:Hopefully, yeah, hopefully it'll work, so, so Well thanks everyone for listening in again on our weekly episodes. You're so cute, just trying to bring some energy to the, you know, to the week.
Speaker 2:Okay, we appreciate our listeners and I got like a tickle in my throat. Yeah, and next week we will bring you guys our letters. So we're wrapping those up. Yes, letters to ourselves, yes, and then I'm going to write one to you. Hopefully we have enough enough time. Maybe we can like extend it to be like a longer episode, but I'm gonna write one to me, and I'm gonna write one to you, okay.
Speaker 1:I'll do the same. Wow, I need to get in my, in my zen.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so okay, guys, well, you guys have the best weekend. Thank you for always being the bestest girl gang and guys that tune into we have some loyal guy gangers. Um, that just sounded disgusting.
Speaker 1:I wasn't gonna say that but we're just not on our a game with terms right now I know ocean in the ocean. Now they said guy gangers. Oh, we're here for the last time yeah, I guy gang, our guy gang, our girl gang and our guy gang yeah because we do have some guys that listen truly Like there's some, there's some. I mean it's not that high right, it's maybe like a 5% in comparison to the girls but, you know, we also love their support too.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, and we'll bring Chad back too.
Speaker 1:So anyway, the audience, the audience spoke. They're like I need more Chad, so Chad, if you're listening, we're going to bring you back.
Speaker 2:We got a lot of feedback on that, like bring back Chad, bring back Leo.
Speaker 1:Or just a longer episode with your brother. So we're working on that, guys, it'll happen.
Speaker 2:So more to come on that too. Well, thank you always for listening. Make sure, if you're not following the show, to hit the follow button and feel free to write us reviews. We love to read them, so yes.
Speaker 1:Well, thanks everyone, we'll see you next week. Bye, bye.
